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Come as You Are (March, 2015, Simon & Schuster) An essential exploration of why and how women’s sexuality works—based on groundbreaking research and brain

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about Emily

Emily Nagoski is the author of Come as You Are: The surprising new science that will transform your sex life. She has a Ph.D.

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Orgasms, What Women Want, and 51 Sex Nerd Sex Tips – free eBooks, yours for the downloading, in the file format of your choice!

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I’m scheduling 2014-15 academic year talks right now – feel free to send me an email! Click here to see descriptions of programs I’ve done in...

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